Action Jack ([info]actionjack) wrote,
@ 2009-03-18 17:23:00
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Where I am
Good day, folks! In light of my lack of recent bloggeries, I felt it sporting to drop a few humdrum details of my recent livings.

Improvisational pursuits are pushing along nicely. I'm currently in level 4B at Improv Olympic, meaning I have about five months left in their program. Meanwhile, I'm finally starting to gain some comradery with my classmates outside of faces I see for three hours a week. A few of us broke off and started our own team. We don't have any shows yet, but for the moment we're rehearsing once a week and at the very least keeping our brains fresh between classes. I'm also about to start writing classes at The Annoyance.

All's well on the lady front. I don't understand why people break up with their significant others and then say "Well, at least I'm free now." I've never felt more imprisoned than the time between breaking up with Heather and hooking up with Lisa. Every time I went out, I always had to look my best, out of fear that I would meet the love of my life and she wouldn't take me seriously because I had a neckbeard and a gaping hole in my jeans, or write me off as gay because I was dressed like a watermelon. But as it stands now, I enjoy a great deal more liberty. If the only clean clothes I have are unflattering, fine. If my bedroom is in a sorry shape that would scare off an unexpected lady visitor, the danger is moot. I'm a lot better at keeping a woman than I am at getting one, so I'm in my element now. Of course I still try to maintain my appearance, and still try to pass myself off as an appealing specimen, but there's a lot more room to do what I please.

Chicago and I are getting along, now that I've survived the murderous winter. I love chasing down buses, and being able to walk most anywhere I want to go, even though all my driving soundtracks are collecting dust. I suppose I'll have to bust out the iPod at some point.

My living situation is still working out. Sharing a three-bedroom apartment is a lot different from sharing a dorm room; Zachary and I survived for three and a half years with a co-existence largely powered by the strength of our friendship, but now I'm living with people who have opposite schedules and personalities. They're at work when I wake up, and asleep when I come home. For the most part, all they know about me is the messes I leave behind. So I've had to man up and do my best to keep the disarray largely confined to my bedroom. Everything else- most notably, spending my leisure hours without waking them up- is second nature to an amateur ninja. At this rate, I plan to stay here for a good while.

The one thorn in my side continues to be my job. Yesterday we had a meeting announcing the implementation of General Service Staff. As it stands, I am a dining room server; I work only in an area where people are sitting down to enjoy their meal. Elsewhere in the building, cocktail servers wait on people playing billiards or shuffleboard, or maintain booths in the arcade area. But these designations have been eliminated, and soon the two staffs will become interchangeable.

I have no interest in the idea of my charms being viewed as a distraction from video games. It appears it may be time for me to become a full-time job hunter. I don't want to abandon my employment without finding a suitable replacement, especially in an economy like this. But the sad truth is that I may never find another job without first feeling the urgency of unemployment. I have enough savings to survive several incomeless months, a girlfriend who hails from an impoverished background and knows how to make a dollar last, a simple mind that can be amused cheaply, and intel that suggests that this is the prime time to find another serving job. I can only hope my motivation will strengthen in this time of need.




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[info]bez_109
2009-03-19 03:23 pm UTC (link)
Good to hear from you. As far as job stuff goes I completely understand. I'm just working freelance film and doing catering whenever I can to get by until I figure out what I really want/ need to do with my work situation. Being I would still recommend trying to find something else while you still work there. Maybe put a time limit on it and say "I'm going to give myself two or three weeks to look for another job" while working there and whether you've found one or not you can just leave. It sounds like you've got some good fallback money but beware, the economy is as shitty as it seems. On a more positive not, its shitty for everyone so prices are dropping for things (I've even noticed some grocery stores having more sales). Having someone like Lisa to share life with can even make being poor a fun adventure. Trust me I know.

It's good to hear you like Chicago. Living in big/real cities is really great. Not having to depend on a car seems to enhance life in so many ways. It sounds like you've got a pretty good living situation with the apartment sharing. I've been living in apartments with other people pretty much since I left Cincy and have lived with people I barely see, people who are my best friends and make living like a constant party, and with people that don't get along and make life stressful. As long as the people you live with aren't bringing you down it's pretty fortunate and you can do your thing. So that's good to hear.

That's great about the improv stuff. Sounds like you're really moving along and doing what it takes to make it happen. I think I speak on behalf of all of your Cincy friends when I say we are most definitely proud of you for taking the leap to do what you love.

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[info]cerberust
2009-03-19 10:01 pm UTC (link)
Agreed with Brett, this post makes me smile.

Being in a relationship is not an excuse to let yourself go, so try not to do it too much. It's been a factor in some of my breaking offs. You gotta at least bring your a game back to the table once in a while, even if its a small gesture, it'll keep your lovely lady on her A game too.

I so miss improv. Glad thats really evolving for you!

I still say you're best suited for a cheesily themed tourist restaurant. People in better spirits, out of town visitors on vacation would appreciate your charms a lot more than locals that drink themselves silly at the same dive every weekend.

Glad to hear you've got some savings. Yeah, I'm mildly in the same boat, in that I don't want to find myself working for this company much longer than another year, maybe even 6 months while I log some health insurance history to make it easier to jump to independent when I leave. Sometimes there's only one way to cut the cord and that's with one quick slicing motion.

I'm still tingly from our last 2 and 2 VS 4 L4D engagement.

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[info]chubbs_malone
2009-03-21 10:06 am UTC (link)
Good to hear (though I was aware of a good chunk of this for obvious reasons) - I will warn you however about the job thing, you have to realize that something like 400,000 people are being laid off every MONTH now, which means that there are way more people looking for jobs than there are jobs to be had, and shit jobs like waiters and such are getting a lot of applicants. If you are going on a serious job hunt my suggestion is to work part time at dave and busters while you do it; I know it sounds like it sucks to be out on the floor but having your charms be a distraction is still preferable to not being able to pay your rent. I've always relied on "something popping up" in my searches for jobs, but thats WAY harder than it used to be and even with a kickass resume you are going to be turned down by a million places before- and if, you find anything. It is NOT a good time to walk away from a shit job cause its a shit job, I'm feeling very much the same way at the hostel. Cut your hours or something, but really you shouldnt walk away until you have a *sure thing*, signed on paper, at somewhere else. Theres just a lot to lose by making a rash decision right now in this economy.

On a lighter note, about all that *thought* and *effort* going into your wardrobe and appearance for lisa during the dating phase, well... despite all the awkward conversations, it sure worked, didnt it? ;) I'm sure you have noticed for yourself that even girls that appreciate humor and craziness have a sex drive as well, and dressing up for that role definately requires more thought and planning than dressing up to show everyone some crazy pants you just got. I'm the same way you are on the whole relationship/freedom conversation, I think the people who think leaving a relationship is "freeing" come from people who see a relationship as more-or-less a way to get easy sex. When thats the basis of why you are in a relationship, then when it becomes a hindrance to other ways of getting easy sex, leaving that situation is freeing in that other routes to easy sex are then open. It seems like a hollow way to go about life to me, but it works for a lot of people. Also I think those types are much more comfortable dressing up with snazziness in mind, if people are comfortable going to business class in their suit 5 days a week I would imagine dressing up in a stripey shirt isnt too taxing.

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